Maturation made easy.. and why does sex STILL make everyone cringe?

Have you guys read or heard of the Book “ my brain on porn” ?

Well, I have.

At the end of an extremely rough year I began to watch all type of porn, you name it from cockolds to orgys to role playing. My vagina was SORE.

I started to become obsessed with masturbating but I would only use my hands and porn..

I decided to get creative!

I went over to the Romantic Depot and into there 75% off section.. but there was something missing aside from another human. I was lacking intimacy with myself.

I started doing some research and here’s what I found.. In Many articles including “ Is porn bad for you? “ where Zoe Cormier navigates through her own research of the question, through the negatives and positives affects that porn may have to our BRAINS. She herself includes a 2015 article in which researcher Valerie Voon introduces a study suggesting how addictive porn may be exploiting fantasies in negative ways, the belief that porn may be desensitizing sexual encounters and even mentions that some sought out the hardcore fiction images they saw. YIKES. What happens is that subconsciously we begin to crave those images through something called the temporal lobes.

The intellectual take out includes 20 facts on pornography from there July 12, 2017 article that even SHOCKED ME. Porn websites received twice as much visits than streaming services, that’s because of Netflix and chill. We never get to the Netflix part now do we?

It states one of these positive facts as helping depression and anxiety.. well that makes sense.

While I happen to agree and disagree with many of these findings, I often find myself using my imagination. I was inspired by an article published by Mashable by Jess Joho. My favorite quote from her article is

“Your brain is the best sexual partner you can ask for”.

When I started exploring my body, I decided everyone else should.. during Christmas I gifted the older family members and close friends , toys that matched there vibe.

At first everyone especially the men were taken back by it.. I opened conversations to see what everyone was into.. let me tell y’all it is not easy talking about sex to your auntie.

I came to a dead end when it came to the men.. many told me that sex toys are weird for men.. that made me sad and then I went on a tyrant to find that they weren’t correct, here’s what I found..

finding an article that shows how many men actually enjoy a pocket pussy or even a good sex toy was nearly impossible!

 https://www.jackandjilladult.com/articles/how-to-use-a-pocket-pussy-and-why-you-need-one/amp/

I gifted pocket pussies to your not so average males and in return I received nothing less than a thank you. That’s right. Men can also use sex toys ! A few of the men practice semen retention and were not a huge fan. I guess I’ll get to this another day.

But Jackandjilladult list many benefits of how Pamela might be so last year! Give her a break and men the socks are tired try something new.

Romantic Depot has a bunch of different shapes, sizes , options they even give you a discreet bag

Cloud 9 Personal Pussy Pocket Stroker

Kevin Hart even spoke about the infamous pocket pussy! Make your partner feel comfortable in bed, ladies I find it extremely attractive to see my man pleasure himself !

For the ladies, I gifted his and hers as some of the women in my circle let me know that they never even owned a sex toy that they enjoyed. I personally am not a fan of the rose but I gave it a shot any ways. A married couple in my family expressed that they never thought about how bringing sex toys to the bedroom can spice things up! He was concerned that maybe she’d enjoyed the toy more than him .. but the truth is we enjoy a good combo.

For the single ladies or the non-traditional couples I personalized items. My personal favorite is the crystal condom.. I’ll share the link of something similar.. The silicone in the condom helps the sensation it basically feels RAW but you are protected! Isn’t that awesome? With the texture of the cock sleeve it creates stimulation for both parties, outer and inner. Even without the VIP price you will still be on the ride of your life for $6.36.

Crystal Penis Girth Cock Sleeve

I gifted a few of my single ladies Lingerie. Lingerie is not only for the men but it helps make you feel more comfortable if perhaps you have areas you are shy about. I explore different avenues in making myself feel as sexy as I’d like to be, lingerie can serve as a tease as well as a a clutch. I was taught from a very early age that going to bed pretty would help your morning start off great. It has worked for me as an adult.

A part of exploring helps everyone feel more comfortable in bed.

There is no way to be comfortable with someone else if you are not first comfortable with yourself.

Not watching as much porn and masturbating at my leisure has worked wonders for me. I felt that speaking with different friends asking questions led me to believe that the too cool for school mentality in our communities are not allowing us to better sex lives.

It is okay to explore your sexuality, do not limit yourself no matter what your homeboys say.. that’s right fellas he probably enjoys getting his gooch licked too. It is perfectly fine to take your time while exploring each others bodies. Get to know her , get to know him and most importantly get to know yourself.

Put down the phone, close your eyes and your brain has superpowers. Once you are in touch with your body, take your time and don’t rush the process. Besides doesn’t it feel better when we take our time arriving at the end goal?

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